Love is a feeling you feel when you feel a feeling you feel you had Never felt before
L O V E - A four Lettered word , which seems to creep in to our life , the moment we steped into this world.
The journey starts as a New Born - The moment you are out of that mother's womb and you have entered the mortal world , you are hugged by the person who held you up for 9 months in her. Every body is staring at you in the hospital. Some envy you , Some are happy to have you and for some you mean the whole world , Especially to the poeple because of who you are in the world , Your Parents. The love being given out in excess there , is not much felt or understood by us , But definately cannot be departed from us. Hence , Love is a feeling you feel when you feel a feeling you feel you had Never felt before.
Then you transform into an infant - When you start standing up on your own feet , when you start walking and the moment you start speaking your first word as - Mamma , you instantly put a 100 Watt smile on your parents' face. The love which you get from every known person as well as every stranger you meet is immeasurable. Again perhaps , Love is a feeling you feel when you feel a feeling you feel you had Never felt before
The phase of a kid comes when you are about 7 - 8 years old - In This phase of your life , you develope interests in various activities like Dance , Music , Art , Theatre or even Studies. You start loving it more than anything. Boys especially get inclined towards Sports or Video games. For Girls it is Dance or Music. That becomes the love of your life , Instantly. Here too , Love is a feeling you feel when you feel a feeling you feel you had Never felt before
The entry into your Teenage - The infactuation every early teenager goes through can simply not be described. The entry into your Puberty , makes you infactuated to every 2nd boy or girl passing by. We instantly start feeling grown up. The love felt that time is just not simple. Its complicated . Because at that time you dont know whether you are right or wrong. You are just new to this type of feeling. You start experiencing a new phase of life. The secret chits thrown or passed around the class during the teacher teaching you . The winking at each other during the class assemblies.The Awkwardness during a movie being watched togather when a romantic scene comes. Everything is just Fresh & New. Once again , Love is a feeling you feel when you feel a feeling you feel you had Never felt before
The mid Teenage period - When you just enter 15 , you start having the first relationship of your life. You have your first kiss at the age of 15. You have your first date. Love starts having a diffrent meaning all togather in your life. The person starts to mean a lot more than your dance or sport now. Perhaps even more your parents. You generally go out of your way to meet the guy . You go against your parents. You sneak out. You turn out to be a rebel. Then the time between 17 and 18 , you have loose the most important thing in your life. Your Virginity. It means a lot to alot of people. You indulge in having sex with the person, you aint even sure if you ll marry him . You think Love is Sex. And hence , we aint wrong. Cze that very moment , Love IS Sex. We get hit by Blind Love.
And then comes the Dreadful heart brake. Some are lucky to have a relationship stable but some just arent able to continue it. Either the boy or the girl for some reason or the other leaves the other. Days of crying , yelling , shouting , madness , inexplainable thoughts creep into your system. Perhaps , Love is a feeling you feel when you feel a feeling you feel you had Never felt before
And then you surpass your Teenage infactuation and land into the Marriage by 25 - Love starts having a diffrent meaning in life. Its not Sex , Its not Love Letters , Its not even Sports . Its LOVE. When you realize that you want to spend your whole life with a man/woman and want to have children with. There love doesnt only mean fantasy but there love comes with Repsonsibilty and compramize. Yet again Love is a feeling you feel when you feel a feeling you feel you had Never felt before
Love definately gives a very different feeling at every stage of your life that you definately would have never felt before.
I hope it was fun reading the whole blog as much as it was for me to write.
Love , Ipshita
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