Eclipse of The Heart

With enough time, we all find what we're looking for. Even if it was there all along. And when time slows and suddenly every moment counts, all you want is for this time to last forever. This is exactly the feeling you get when you are in Love. As time passes by ,  But Some say love is a river, some says love's a silly song. Some say love is all around us. It lifts us up where we belong. Some say love is a secret you keep sealed. To some, love is a battlefield. Some say love is hearing laughter in the rain. But here in this place, we all know love is pain. 

We all have diffrent experiences with the word called " Love. " 

It is true , that Love is not easy , Perhaps , It is very essential to understand , that Our hearts are not just merely diagrams. They are much deeper than that. It is not possible that none of us have gone through heartbreaks. Whether it is for not loving enough or loving the other person a bit too much , that you cant let the person breathe. But today , lets ponder over one of the biggest reasons of heartbreaks - being cheated on. 

Being cheated on is pretty common. Infact, every body in life one time or the other either cheats or becomes the victim at the recieving end. Perhaps it's true that , sometimes despite the risk , the only thing to do is seize the moment ,because you are too afraid to loose the person who you love. And land up forgiving the person. Some wait after forgiving for the time to come , when the person would change and things would get better. but for some that time never comes, Instead of healing old wounds, the wait just opens new ones time after time.

Ofcourse , we do realize the fact that, There is always a moment. I can do this. I can give into this or I can resist it. You wont know when the moment was , but you can bet , everybody goes through that moment. We just need to put a control alarm on our selves. But again We have to accept the fact that " To Err is Human " 

 The bible says , there is nothing as saintly as forgiveness. Therefore. Love is not only about selflessly loving each other or going around making compromises. Its more about understanding and forgiving the other person. Because we must not forget , we all humans are made up those seven deadly sins. Next time you face the similar situation, go hug the person tight and tell him , that he is forgiven and try your best to be a better partner.  Give love and Gain Love that is the principle on which your life moves. 

While most people think it's our brain that controls our actions, it's often our heart that gets the biggest workout. It can make us do the craziest of things. But it can also let us take a chance on new adventures. Because when we open our heart we can explore a world of love. And be pleasantly surprised by the people already in our life. But unfortunately our hearts are very sensitive. And when they're broken everything around us is shattered. Total eclipse of the heart. It is tough , but it is NOT impossible. 

Love , Ipshita

xx