Embrace Your Uniqueness

 

And so I sit and wait for the day

When I can be seen in my own special way

Just myself, How I should be

Not at all perfect – Just perfectly me.

We all are unique, different, one of a kind.  Part of learning who we are is comparing ourselves to those around us. We all go through periods in our lives where we want to be like everyone else in the world but not ourselves.

This is a very normal part of growing up and strangely enough it is a part of process of finding our uniqueness. Just be sure that you just don’t stop there. You need to move on. Once you ve found your uniqueness, It becomes essential to then branch out and add more unique things to you. Of course this doesn’t always apply to looks but also applies o your personality to an overall picture of who you are.

 The differences are the things that define you and give you a sense of who you really are. There are times when you like dressing up in a certain way that the fashion doesnt follow  or you incline your likeness towards a certain material that your best friend doesnt like. But then , that is what makes you unique and diffrent. It doesnt matter , what poeple think of you or how they percieve you. All that matters is , what YOU think of your self and how YOU percieve your self. 

 It was 2 weeks back when me and my friend were talking that my ex best friend passed by in front of me. She was wearing the green T shirt which we always wear in school. However, her’s was faded and didn’t look pleasurable. So I turned to me new friend pointed out that thing to her. My ex friend saw it and instantly thought that I m saying something bad about her. The next thing I knew was she was going around telling people that how I was insulting her and telling other people that she was fat! I was flabbergasted. I thought in my mind. That she can be so insecure and ashamed of herself that she practically thought no other reason of me going and telling ppl but her body couture. This is not her fault. It’s her subconscious mind that spoke this. This basically explains that how unhappy we are from inside and how embarrassed we are of ourselves.

My mother had always told me one thing, Ipshita, Life is too short to be someone else. So be yourself and see how the world revolves around you. These will be the things which will make you a special person and will help you meet that special person in your later life. 

Love 

Ipshita

xx